Cheeky Food Group – Team Cooking Extravaganza

Our annual office Christmas Party was a bit unusual this year. We met at a Bowling Club and cooked our own gourmet meal.

The food was great, but it was a lot of hard work at the end of a long week, especially since we had to do the preparation, cooking and clean up! I almost lost my eyebrows trying to light a low pressure gas cooker.

I personally wouldn't be rushing to re-live the experience for the annual Christmas Party, but as a team building event during the day time, it would probably be a lot more fun.

Many of the people put their faith in him

Jesus went on to say, "When you have lifted up the Son of Man, you will know who I am. You will also know that I don't do anything on my own. I say only what my Father taught me. The one who sent me is with me. I always do what pleases him, and he will never leave me."

After Jesus said this, many of the people put their faith in him.

John 8:28-30

I find it fascinating to observe John’s commentary that after Jesus’ words here, many of the people listening put their faith in him. Why, what was so significant about these remarks? I believe that they communicate a depth of relationship between Jesus and the Father that must have been incredibly attractive to his listeners. They would have seen the miracles; so beginning to comprehend the love relationship between Jesus and the Father that motivated and empowered him must have been breathtaking.

Movember is over -- at last!!!

The mo is no more -- hooray!

It is very nice to have my upper lip back. I was able to raise over $300 for the various charities, so it has been a success. I am thinking of getting a team together at my work for next year.

Movember: Day 21 - The Progress of the Mo

It has been very itchy and quite uncomfortable, but ironically it is also starting to become quite familiar.

Belinda has been excellent, but she doesn't want me to keep it after 30 November!

This is no surprise.

Evolution - The Experience

A microbiologist friend of mine recently received an invitation to an Event to be held in Melbourne in 2009 called "Evolution - The Experience". The conference is endorsed by The Australian Society for Microbiology -- no doubt to the disappointment of my friend.

It looks like the Darwin propaganda machine continues to roll on -- sadly I expect that the event may well be at least partially funded by our State and Federal Governments.

Ironically the organisers haven't actually overstated the impact:

"The Origin of Species, sparked an intellectual, social and spiritual revolution.
 It radically transformed our understanding of life on this planet – the origins of life, our relationship to other species and the way life can adapt or fail to do so in the face of environmental change."

The problem is that 'radical transformation' not based on truth will ultimately take you in a direction that you will eventually live (or die) to regret!

Movember

Hi All,

During Movember (the month formerly known as November) I'm growing a Mo. That's right I'm bringing the Mo back because I'm passionate about tackling men's health issues and being proactive in the fight against men's depression and prostate cancer.

To donate to my Mo you can either:

1. Click this link https://www.movember.com/au/donate/donate-details.php?action=sponsorlink&rego=1915721&country=au and donate online using your credit card or PayPal account, or
2. Write a cheque payable to 'Movember Foundation', referencing my Registration Number 1915721 and mailing it to:

Movember Foundation
PO Box 292
Prahran VIC 3181

Remember, all donations over $2 are tax deductible.

The money raised by Movember is used to raise awareness of men's health issues and donated to the Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia and beyondblue - the national depression initiative. The PCFA and beyondblue will use the funds to fund research and increase support networks for those men who suffer from prostate cancer and depression.

Did you know:

• Depression affects 1 in 6 men....most don't seek help. Untreated depression is a leading risk factor for suicide.
• Last year in Australia 18,700 men were diagnosed with prostate cancer and more than 2,900 died of prostate cancer - equivalent to the number of women who will die from breast cancer annually.

For those that have supported Movember in previous years you can be very proud of the impact it has had and can check out the details at: [ Fundraising Outcomes ].

Movember culminates at the end of month Gala Partés. If you would like to be part of this great night you'll need to purchase a [ Gala Parté Ticket ].

Thanks for your support Wesley.

More information is available at http://www.movember.com/.

Movember is proudly grown by Holden and Schick.

Movember is proud partners with the Prostate Cancer Foundation of Australia and beyondblue - the national depression initiative.

Essential Canberra facts

It seems my last entry has stirred up a bit of controversy! But not for the reasons I expected, for those who don't know much about Canberra, here are some essential facts taken from the Visit Canberra website.

Essential Canberra facts at a glance.

Population
About 325,000 people live in Canberra.

Location
Canberra is located in the Australian Capital Territory, which is surrounded by New South Wales. The city is 150 kilometres inland and 571 metres above the Pacific Ocean, 281 kilometres from Sydney and 660 kilometres from Melbourne.

History
Located on the ancient lands of the Indigenous Ngunnawal people, Canberra’s name is thought to mean ‘meeting place’, derived from the Aboriginal word Kamberra. European settlers first came in the 1830s, and the area was chosen for the federal capital in 1908. Canberra’s special contrast of nature and urban living was planned in 1912 by master designer, Walter Burley Griffin, a Chicago architect who won an international design competition. The provisional Parliament House was opened in 1927 in what was then a treeless paddock.

My learned friend Scott likes to describe Canberra as a 'great big deserted sheep paddock', but that is a somewhat short sighted view (not even shared by his wife I might add!). We often fail to realise the value and potential of some places immediately. Take the Dutch for example -- in 1667 they swapped Manhattan Island for an obscure spice island in South East Asia held by the English. I guess the lesson here is that we often can't see the true value of the things we currently hold in our possession -- even an obscure 'sheep paddock'.

I was fascinated today to learn of the aboriginal heritage of the location as a 'meeting place' -- even the word Canberra is a derivation of the indigenous name for the land.

Canberra -- call me 'crazy' but I love it

Some of my closest friends and many other think I'm mad for loving our national capital -- the magnificent Canberra -- or 'Cambra' as it's often pronounced locally.

There is so much to see in Canberra. It is a modern thriving metropolis less than four hours drive from Sydney. It has all the amenities that Sydney has to offer, but without the traffic chaos, expense and overcrowding.

Belinda and I just spent a delightful weekend there, enjoying meals at various restaurants, going to the Caravan and Camping show (we managed to park across the road within spittin' distance of the entrance!), and also seeing a movie in the city centre where we managed to park our car on the street right outside the cinema.

I love planning and setting aside opportunities like this for the sake of our marriage. I have learned over the years that no-one else will make your marriage a priority, so it is best to make sure you put the effort in yourself.

Outfit Selection Constipation

My friend Scott wrote this for Belinda. It relates to her search for a 'frock' she can wear to a wedding this coming weekend. I thought it was brilliant and laughed out loud when I read it at work -- hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

Do you find that no matter how hard you try, that you simply can not select an outfit?

Do you feel disappointed and lethargic about your outfit selection efforts?

Does the thought of trying to find another outfit make you feel queasy?

If so, then you suffer from outfit selection constipation.


Outfit selection constipation is a problem that effects people as they get older.

It is caused by the unhealthy combination of too many bills and not enough money.

It is accentuated when combined with putting others before yourself

Do not despair, there is a cure.


When taken according to instructions, Spousal Intervention is 90% guaranteed of giving you the chance to relieve your outfit selection constipation.

Spousal Intervention involves relieving you of the selection decision, thereby relieving you of the guilt and burden so often associated with outfit selection constipation.

Simply take Spousal Intervention aurally and relax as your outfit selection constipation dissipates naturally.

Take Spousal Intervention and be free from outfit selection constipation.

(Spousal Intervention can be found for a limited time this afternoon at Chatswood)

Spousal Intervention is a registered Trade Mark of Wes Dart Industries. Contact Belinda Dart Pty Ltd for further information on outfit selection constipation.

Helping Hands Not Pointing Fingers

Belinda passed this on to me today -- I think it's absolutely excellent...

Read Acts 18:24-28

None of us comes to the Christian faith completely formed. We are works in progress. How we progress depends much on how other Christians deal with us. This passage shows us how one man, Apollos, was able to overcome his deficiencies and become a fine Christian leader. And how Priscilla and Aquila were instrumental in that. Apollos was already eloquent and passionate and educated when they met him. Yet somehow he had some gaps in understanding. So they took him aside and privately filled in the gaps.

How easy it is to do something different. To take such a person down a peg or two in public, showing up their ignorance and allowing the critic to claim some sort of superiority. To mount a whispering campaign to undermine that person which would be a more discreet assassination. Or to take no action at all. To hide behind niceness, "don't want to make a fuss do we?" "Don't want to hurt anyone's feelings do we?" Such "niceness" is often timidity in disguise and does no good because it doesn't address a real issue.

Priscilla and Aquila took another option. They confronted Apollos with the problem but did so privately. No gossip, no public put down, no cowardly avoidance. They put him right in a way that did no damage but much good. Which is what we long for. Someone to move us on in the faith but without shaming us or demeaning us. Someone who cares enough to confront, but who confronts with discretion.

Apollos went on to be an effective church leader. Priscilla and Aquila didn't just see who Apollos was. They saw who he could become. Each of us needs others who will speak the truth in love to us that we might become who were made by God to be. We are not, after all, to be defined by our deficiencies, but by our potential in God.

Blessings
David Reay

Star of the Month

I have been nominated as 'Star of the Month' in the current Step Into Life monthly newsletter! Hooray!!! ;-) This is how I answered the searching questions:

Where were you born?

I was born in Mona Vale hospital and have lived on the Northern Beaches for my entire life. It was fun running past it during the recent Pub2Pub run -- what a magnificent location! Two of my three children have also been born there.


What is your current profession?

I am a qualified CPA, but I am currently working for an Australia software company based in North Ryde as a consultant in the business intelligence (no it's not an oxymoron!) department. My boss is a 'health nut' who loves riding bikes, swimming and sailing. She makes us walk the stairs instead of taking the lift; and we often go for bush walks during lunch breaks.


What sports have you been involved with during your life/best achievement?

Sadly 'sport' was a four letter word in my family, although we did enjoy camping and bush walking when growing up. I have really loved watching all my children play soccer. It is only in the past 12 months that I have been personally inspired with exercise -- thank you Karen!!! My biggest sporting achievement was being able to run the 14km City2Surf in 89 minutes and 55 seconds! I last did the City2Surf in 2004, walking the whole way; in 2008 I managed to run (I use the term loosely -- read 'steady jog') the whole way!

My best achievement, however, would easily be marrying my lovely wife Belinda almost 19 years ago.

What is your favourite Step into Life session?

Definitely the Wednesday morning cardio class -- although Saturday morning is good fun -- especially when the sun is shining and everyone turns up!


What is your favourite naughty treat when your instructors aren't looking?

Come on -- who doesn't enjoy an excellent curry, a glass of fine red and maybe some Connoisseur ice cream (any flavour will do!) every so often?

What is family?

My friend Heather shared some interesting thoughts in her comments. She said that...

Family are those who share the experiences life; the highs, lows and all that is in between. So what is blood? That which runs through our veins -- family extends beyond blood.

It is also fair to say that often those who share 'blood' ties, fail to share with us in the experiences of life. 

I think that friendship is surely one of the most profound gifts that God has given to the human race.  Deep friendships, full of love, sacrifice and devotion are surely the glue that hold all of us together.  Friendship sets us apart from the animal kingdom.

I believe that the goal of healthy parenting is to be able to count your children among your closest friends when they have reached maturity.

Pub2Pub Success

Once again a successful run. The official distance was 13km, but a friend from my exercise class had a GPS device that measured it as 13.7km. Essentially the same as the City2Surf at 14km, especially when you consider that the first 800m is run on the beach!

My official time was 1:28:44 and I was delighted to have been able to run all the way (apart from a couple of bottlenecks when running up from the beach). My fitness instructor, Karen Boath, only managed to beat my time by 4 mins! My recovery has also been much faster this time around.

I personally found this race a little harder than the City2Surf as this time I was running north directly into the sun. It just happened to be an overcast day for the City2Surf; and you are running east and south anyway, so the sun isn't as much of a problem.

Simon (my 9 year old) is now keen for me to take him for a run...

My Friend Heather

Tonight is a special celebration for a very dear friend. Her name is Heather Joy Hansby (she is the one on the left in the above photo) and she is turning 50.

Heather has been an integral part of my life for over two decades. She attended my wedding, has walked with Belinda and I through the highs and lows of church life, the birth of all our children, parenting struggles, changing work situations and various family dramas. I find it hard to imagine life without her!

Some precious qualities of Heather:

1. full of love for God
2. dependable
3. loyal
4. devoted
5. honours others
6. never lacking in zeal
7. joyful in hope
8. patient in affliction
9. faithful in prayer
10. shares what she has
11. hospitable
12. humble

There qualities come together so wonderfully in the following passage:

Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honour one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervour, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with God's people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position (Or willing to do menial work). Do not be conceited.

Romans 12:9-16

I think that the above scripture verses sum up so beautifully the quality of love in Heather's life. I have so much appreciated her friendship and support. She has become an extension to our family, our children still refer to her as 'Aunty' Heather. 'Aunty' is a title reserved for just one other person in their world apart from blood relatives! She and Jess have shared Christmas with us for many years also.

Heather, I remember fondly your 40th birthday at Sweet Emma's. The joy of seeing you sing (impromptu!) with the jazz band that night! Your love of music and drama is a defining aspect of your personality and character -- you have passed on that same passion to your daughter also. I remember only a few months ago when you sang at my 40th birthday. I chose the song 'You've Got a Friend' (made famous by James Taylor) so deliberately.

The songwriter, Carole King, captured something very special about friendship in the chorus:

You just call out my name, and you know wherever I am;
I'll come running, to see you again;
Winter Spring Summer or Fall,
All you gotta do is call,
And I'll be there -- you've got a friend.

This is how I feel about you my friend -- Thank You!

May you have a happy 50th birthday and be thoroughly blessed.

Tired teens risking their hearts

Might be worth showing this article to Tom!

Tired teens risking their hearts - AtHome - Technology - theage.com.au

Jill Stark
August 19, 2008

Sleep-deprived teenagers are at greater risk of high blood pressure and heart attacks - and their mobile phones, computer games and iPods could be to blame, research suggests.

A study of teens aged 13 to 16 found those who slept less than 6½ hours a night were up to three times more likely to have elevated blood pressure.

Researchers said the "technological invasion of the bedroom" was responsible for creating a generation of sleep-starved youngsters.

The study, published in Circulation, the journal of the American Heart Association, looked at the sleeping patterns of 238 teenagers and found that the duration of sleep directly affected blood pressure.

Those who had trouble nodding off at night or waking up in the morning were also at increased risk.

It is the first study of its kind to look at the link between sleep and blood pressure in healthy teens.

The author of the research, Susan Redline from University Hospital's Sleep Disorders Clinic in Cleveland, Ohio, said "sleep insufficiency" was often related to mobile phones, music and computers in the bedroom.

"There are teens who text message or listen to music all night, compounded by early school hours. Adolescents need nine hours of sleep," Professor Redline said.

"Parents should optimise sleep quality for their family with regular sleep and wake times and bedrooms should be quiet, dark and conducive to sleep."

High blood pressure in childhood is linked to heart disease in adulthood.

Professor Redline said the results could have huge public health implications.

A group of Australian health specialists told the Herald in February that sleep should be a national health priority on par with alcohol abuse and obesity.

Problems with sleep underlie up to 70 per cent of GP visits and cost the economy more than $10 billion a year.

Fatigue is also implicated in a high proportion of car accidents, workplace injuries and cases of depression.

Sleep experts accused the Prime Minister, Kevin Rudd, of setting a bad example by admitting that he survives on less than five hours of sleep a night.

Eleven Marks of Perverted Authority

This is a heavy topic, but I found this list to be useful some years ago and rediscovered it today. I think it is still pretty much 'on the money':

1. The claim of direct authority from God, rather than testing things by the Word. Many today have set "personal" revelation and experience above the final authority of God's Word. When this occurs there is no longer any basis for ascertaining the will of God, as one would not be able to discern truth from error because the standard is "personal" rather than the Word of God.
2. The command is to "submit to me," rather than "I will serve you."
3. The method of leadership is to "order" people around, rather than to appeal for them to do the right things.
4. There is a dominating, "pushy" drive instead of a dependence on God to direct.
5. There is a sense of control, rather than a sense of support.
6. A gift is exploited so that others are made to feel dependent on it.
7. There is an inflexibility - "don't question me" - "don't touch the Lord's anointed."
8. There is unapproachability and intimidation - the "aura" around the leader keeps the followers in "awe."
9. There emerges an organisation built around a man and his peculiar emphases instead of around Christ and His Word.
10. There will be cyclical challenges to the authority figure (which are immediately and forcefully purged).
11. There is more concern for maintaining the authoritarian structure than there is for caring about the people in it.

by Wanda Mason

Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought

For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgement, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
Romans 12:3

I had a recent conversation with someone who gave me their opinion on a personal decision that I had made, and by extension their view of the character implications of it.  It was a subtle thing, but the person concerned made the assumption that I valued and desired their view and counsel.

It reminded me of times I have 'spoken into' peoples lives in the past when my counsel was neither sought nor really required.  We have to be so careful not to let our pride get the better of us.

Sober judgement and humility are always the best policy.  I'm sure that's why the Bible says:

God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.
James 4:6b

Pub2Pub 2008 - Registration Confirmation

I have been inspired since the City2Surf and have decided to enter the Pub2Pub fun run on Sunday 24/8. Here is my confirmation letter.

Dear Wesley,

Congratulations! You have successfully registered yourself in the 16th Annual 'Pub2Pub Fun Run & Walk' 2008.

Event Date: Sunday 24th August 2008 (Rain or Shine)
Start Time: 8am Sharp
Start Line: Dee Why Surf Life Saving Club, DEE WHY
Distance: 13 kms
Registration Entrants
Bib # Name
2634 Wesley DART

Your participation is helping the community to raise $100,000 for local charities. Including local Surf Clubs, State Emergency Service & the NSW Rural Fire Service.

Please ensure you have read the terms and conditions which are available on our website www.pub2pub.com.au

Thank you for taking part in this celebrational event!

Phil Jackson
PRESIDENT
Rotary Club of Brookvale

Crossing the line in the City 2 Surf

Not sure how long the link will be up, but it might work for a few weeks. I come in on the right hand side towards the end of the clip.

My BIG race finish

I look very tired!!!

Prayer and Encouragement Link

After a time of corporate worship and prayer last night at a church music team meeting, we broke into smaller groups to pray for one another.

One of the younger guys in our group marvelled at how he 'felt better' after we prayed for him. It wasn't that he had been healed (although I have definitely seen this happen), or that his circumstances had immediately changed.

I believe it was simply a manifestation of Jesus' promise that "For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them" Matthew 18:20.

When God shows up during worship and prayer, we can't help but be encouraged. Somehow our circumstances seem to become less important and we are lifted to a higher place by His Spirit.

A great example of this I thought of is found in Acts 16:25 when Paul and Silas were worshipping and praying at midnight after being flogged and thrown into prison. God came on the scene in quite a profound way. After lifting their spirits inwardly, He then proceeded to break the physical chains that we holding them outwardly.

My friend Chris says that God is the kindest person he knows -- I am inclined to agree with him.

The Sun Herald City 2 Surf

The Sun Herald City 2 Surf

What a weekend -- after a long period of anticipation, I finally took to the pavement in the 2008 City2Surf. My aim was to run as much of the 14km course as I could, and hopefully to finish in under 100 minutes. This puts me in the 'Green Start' (second group) if I choose to run the course next year.

I finished the race in approximately 89 minutes -- having run (I use the term loosely -- it was more of a consistent jog) the whole way.

It was a great feeling to have achieved this milestone. I entered the race in 2003(?) -- not to run it, but to walk it. I can't remember my time from back then -- but as recently as 12 months ago, I couldn't have even run around an oval without needing to stop several times to catch my breath!!!

I must confess that I am feeling a little sore today however.

Joining the Step Into Life outdoor exercise program has made huge difference to my level of fitness. My personal trainer Karen Boath has been a real encouragement and inspiration.

Father’s Love Letter

The Cry of a Father’s Heart from Genesis to Revelation

You may not know me, but I know everything about you. Psalm 139:1
I know when you sit down and when you rise up. Psalm 139:2
I am familiar with all your ways. Psalm 139:3
Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. Matthew 10:29-31
For you were made in my image. Genesis 1:27
In me you live and move and have your being. Acts 17:28
For you are my offspring. Acts 17:28
I knew you even before you were conceived. Jeremiah 1:4-5
I chose you when I planned creation. Ephesians 1:11-12
You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. Psalm 139:15-16
I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. Acts 17:26
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14
I knit you together in your mother's womb. Psalm 139:13
And brought you forth on the day you were born. Psalm 71:6
I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me. John 8:41-44
I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love. 1 John 4:16
And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. 1 John 3:1
Simply because you are my child and I am your Father. 1 John 3:1
I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. Matthew 7:11
For I am the perfect father. Matthew 5:48
Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. James 1:17
For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. Matthew 6:31-33
My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. Jeremiah 29:11
Because I love you with an everlasting love. Jeremiah 31:3
My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore. Psalms 139:17-18
And I rejoice over you with singing. Zephaniah 3:17
I will never stop doing good to you. Jeremiah 32:40
For you are my treasured possession. Exodus 19:5
I desire to establish you with all my heart and all my soul. Jeremiah 32:41
And I want to show you great and marvelous things. Jeremiah 33:3
If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me. Deuteronomy 4:29
Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4
For it is I who gave you those desires. Philippians 2:13
I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine. Ephesians 3:20
For I am your greatest encourager. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. Psalm 34:18
As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. Isaiah 40:11
One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. Revelation 21:3-4
And I'll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth. Revelation 21:3-4
I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus. John 17:23
For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. John 17:26
He is the exact representation of my being. Hebrews 1:3
He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you. Romans 8:31
And to tell you that I am not counting your sins. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19
Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19
His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you. 1 John 4:10
I gave up everything I loved that I might gain your love. Romans 8:31-32
If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me. 1 John 2:23
And nothing will ever separate you from my love again. Romans 8:38-39
Come home and I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen. Luke 15:7
I have always been Father, and will always be Father. Ephesians 3:14-15
My question is…Will you be my child? John 1:12-13
I am waiting for you. Luke 15:11-32

Love, Your Dad.

Almighty God
Father Heart Communications Copyright 1999 www.FathersLoveLetter.com

My Dad - Part 1

How to begin?

I really wanted to write something of a tribute to my Dad. I have written many tributes to him in one form or another over the years. Sometimes in speeches, but generally on birthday, Fathers Day or Christmas cards.

My Dad is a fascinating person. He was raised as the fifth child in a family that would eventually be home for seven children. His father Dr Harold Whitmore Dart was a Baptist Minister, who I think eventually became the general superintendent of the Baptist Union -- kind of like the Archbishop for Baptist's living in New South Wales. His mother (my grandmother) was Elsie Janet Dart. I don't have that many memories of my grandmother, but from all accounts, she was a strong and determined woman who loved her husband and children very much.

I would imagine that it would have been easy to have 'slipped under the radar' during his formative years. He had strict parents, who clearly loved him, but as number 5 it would have been quite tough to stand out from the crowd. From what I understand Dad wasn't particularly talented at sport -- although he loved cricket. I believe that he was an average student, who didn't really stand out in any particular subject. Also, from what I have learned, he didn't have that much of an aptitude for mechanical or practical things.

Despite these apparent 'shortcomings' Dad had quite a few things in his favour. He was really good with people, he was an excellent communicator in written and oral form, and people naturally trusted him with their secrets. He also had a tremendous personal faith in God; having been baptised during his teen years and being very involved in leadership of the Christian Endeavour movement.

He started out learning chemistry at Sydney University and working in a local pharmacy. He never finished his university education, but his studies and work experience led to a travelling sales career at Geigy Pharmaceuticals that lasted a few years. This role eventually took him to Perth where he met my mum.

What he noticed along the way was that his co-workers readily trusted him with their secrets, often marriage and family related issues. Dad was a good listener, and I am sure that his counsel would have been a help to many.

This natural talent eventually took him into the field of marriage and family counselling. First as a volunteer, then as a full time vocation. Mum played a significant part Dad's decision to change careers, her intuition and faith proving to be a great encouragement to Dad. He has assisted countless people in this capacity over the years.

to be continued...

Funeral Reflections

How good it is to go to a funeral filled with hope and joy. Jean Olive Miller was a woman of considerable substance who lived a fairly quiet and 'ordinary' life; but she made a lasting impression on so many people along the way.

I was thinking about the lessons that her life taught us. She saw so much change over her time at Bridgeway Community Church. From it's beginnings in the 1950's through to the present day.

Her life has taught me:

1) It is good to remember the past, but it is always important to live in the present with an eye to the future. Jean was not a sentimental person.

2) Avoid the arrogance of thinking that our own contribution is somehow more 'special' or 'valuable' than someone else's. Over the years Jean saw so many changes in church leadership -- and a couple of splits. She never seemed to become jaded -- in fact her response to change was to lament why others couldn't find a way to reconcile, but she was always ready to move on. Her hope remained firmly in Jesus -- I'm sure that's why there was always a twinkle in her eye.

Self-deprecation

I listened to a recent talk by CJ Mahaney entitled 'Don't Waste Your Humor' and found it to be quite challenging. Particularly in relation to healthy self-deprecating humour.

The main point for me was that there is a direct correlation between the level of humility in our lives and the ability we have to laugh at ourselves.

It was also interesting to note that where our humour is largely directed at identifying the shortcomings of others, then it may indicate a significant area of pride in our own lives.

On reflection, I wonder whether it could also be indicative of a person who feels so worthless that the only way they can feel good about themselves is to try to bring others 'lower'. I think my Dad used to say something like this to me.

Another Funeral

Scheduled for 2pm tomorrow, this is the second funeral I have been to in as many weeks. This time for an elderly lady in our church whose life was a great blessing to many. Jean Miller will be very much missed. Some comments from our pastor appear below.

Jean passed away peacefully on Monday and is now with the Lord. She served the church wonderfully over the years and in the early days of the Baptist Church was a 'key player'. Jean was a wonderful member of Bridgeway and certainly was thrilled to see the church growing again and filling again with children and youth. Many of us enjoyed regular times with Jean and her keen mind was always a provocation.

Interest Rates

I am getting a bit fed up with rising interest rates, although news reports today suggest that the next move is likely to be downward, and possibly before December.

Belinda suggested I lock our mortgage rates in a year ago, and now I am beginning to wish that I had.  Our budget would not have been quite so tight as it is now.

Uncle John is turning 70

I'm not sure how many nephews will be writing in this rather impressive folio, but here goes nothing – well I hope not nothing – but I do hope that my little something brings back a few old memories of a life in the Forest so many years ago.

Congratulations on reaching biblical maturity. The Bible says in Proverbs 16:31 that "Gray hair is a crown of splendour; it is attained by a righteous life" … I rather suspect this to be largely true of you.

I always felt a great affinity with the Brew Crew while growing up. Angophora Crescent was a bit like a second home. We used to ride our bikes around to visit your home on weekends and during school holidays. I developed friendships with all your children, but most notably with Stephen and Robert at different times. I remember that we could hear Robert from two streets away when he rode his bike to our place. He would come hurtling down Rabbett Street making the sound of a car horn.

You may recall that I have always had a bit of a fascination with words in general, but also with public speaking. You have always seemed to me to be such a 'natural' in this role – often speaking without notes. I remember popping around to your home in Forestville while you were in the middle of a media training course for your role at State Transit. You were explaining how you were trained not to answer specific questions. This was an amazing concept to me at the time; but to this day I still think of you when I watch those frustrating political interviews. Our politicians seem to be the masters of this curious craft.

Fireworks nights at the Brew's house were always a highlight of our annual calendar. This was despite Robert (?) almost taking Grandma's eye out with a 'ball shooter'! I remember being so disappointed when the government of the day decided that we were no longer mature enough to enjoy fireworks responsibly. Looking back, I suspect that my own children's antics with burning sticks and campfires are probably pretty mild compared to what we got up to on firecracker nights in the seventies.

I remember a camping trip to Hill End that you and my Mum organised with us cousins. I can't remember why my own Dad was busy for that weekend, but I recall having a great time. Poor Robert was very anxious about camping; I think it may have been one of his first times away like that. Not sure if it was this trip, but I remember that he desperately needed to go to the toilet during the night, but was afraid to stray too far from the tent. The next morning we found a mysterious brown pile in close proximity to the rear of the tent.

I wasn't there to witness it, but I have it on good authority that during a meal at your place you were 'playing footsies' with Auntie Sylvia under the table. At some point during the course of the 'footsies' session, Auntie Syl got up from the table; in that moment you realised that the legs you were interacting with belonged to someone else. Apparently there was an awkward silence, and the matter was never raised again!!!

Sunday was the day you tried to find some rest in the midst of your busy schedule. We would often pop around after church to find you listening to classical and other styles of music on your big wooden record player. Some days I would watch you paint. I can still hear your tenor voice in my head, particularly during the old hymns we sang at church; from memory you sat in the row behind us.

You were always a very practical man – no wonder you found such an affinity with engineering. I could never quite work out what kept you and Dad friends for so many years. It wasn't just the family ties and the shared history. And I don't think it was the innumerable church meetings you both attended together either. I hope you will forgive the observation, but I wonder if Dad saw something he admired in your practicality; that he knew he would never attain to –- and I wonder if you saw something of Dad's ability with people and relationships that never seemed to come as naturally for you. Whatever the case, it is clear to me that you have both placed considerable value on your friendship over the years.

I remember watching you help Dad with a retaining wall project (the wall still stands to this day) at our home in French's Forest. We used concrete core samples; I think obtained somehow via your connections with State Rail. It was a real treat to ride in the mighty Chrysler Valiant. I think Stephen used to refer to it as 'The Val'. I remember observing your veiled frustration, but seeing that you were also trying so hard to be patient with Dad, as you helped him (he helped you?) begin to build the wall.

I recall that I asked you to make a speech when Belinda and I were married. I think you and Auntie Sylvia also share a wedding anniversary on the 20^th of January? I can't remember the detail of your speech that day, but the key message was that I should seek to 'woo' Belinda every day of our married life.

It was good advice that I have sought hard to follow.

Thank you.

You have run a good race Uncle John. You are set to finish strong! May the next twelve months find you even stronger in your faith, hope and love of God.

With much love, Wes Dart

To him who is able to keep you from falling and to present you

before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy—

to the only God our Saviour be glory, majesty, power and authority,

through Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages,

now and forevermore! Amen.

Jude 1: 24-25

Some reflections on my party

Extracted from an e-mail to a friend. Once again, recorded here for posterity...

I am so sorry you weren't able to make it to the party. You both featured in a number of photos in the slideshow I left running on the Mac during the night.

The party was wonderful -- I am still enjoying the memories from it. Especially the speeches (Scott, Neil & Chris) and conversations with so many people. Geoff was up to his usual standard as MC. Belinda did an outstanding job with the meal; we had a spit roast, salads and potato bake for around 70 guests. She made a roast pumpkin and sweet corn soup for entrée which people are still talking about!

I have built a 15m2 paved area out the front of our house (with a fair bit of help) which worked so well with the number of guests and the spit roast. Scott did an outstanding job with sound and lighting. We had fires in several places, the biggest in a 44 gallon drum (sourced by Pete Andrew) that was out the front.

The whole atmosphere was wonderful. The last guests left at 2.30AM.

My 40th Birthday Party

The original invitation and program recorded here for posterity...

Master of Ceremonies: The indomitable Geoff Stoddart…

Music Supremo: Scott 'DJ' Lea

7.30 PM People begin to arrive

Food: Spring rolls on platters

Pumpkin soup in cups

8.30 PM Dinner

Food: Roast beef on spit

Potato bake

Crispy noodle salad

Bread rolls

9.30 PM Dessert & Speeches

Food: Profiteroles (some to form a cake)

Chocolate fountain

Speeches Scott 'Peter' Lea

Neil 'James' Pierson

Chris 'John' Ryburn

Solo Heather 'Joy' Hansby

"You've got a friend"

Response Wes 'we'll see' Dart

10.30 PM Tea & Coffee

Dancing

Finish As late as we reasonably can…

That reminds me – I must write a note to our neighbours!

'This is the Story of Star Wars'

I just found a fabulous site called Read Along Adventures.

You'll know it's time to turn the page when you hear this sound...
Remember those great read-along books from when you were a kid? In the days before computers, DVD and VHS, this was the next best thing for reliving a movie or a TV show. From Goonies to A-Team, Star Wars to Mary Poppins, they made them all!
This site contains an ongoing collection of these out of print books, compiled into convenient Flash files.

My favourites as a child were Star Wars and The Black Hole.

The Man With Blowy Liver

Last Sunday we celebrated with my Dad his 70th birthday. It was an excellent day. He sent me an e-mail yesterday which said:

I wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed all the surprises of my birthday and to thank you for the part you and your children played in making the day so successful. The memories of the day will remain with me for the rest of my life.

Part of the day was a special concert that included songs and musical items performed by children and grandchildren. I also took the opportunity to write a poem based on the Australian classic 'The Man From Snowy River' by A. B. 'Banjo' Patterson written in 1890.

My version was titled: 'The Man With Blowy Liver'.

There was movement at Dart station, for the word had passed around
That the Phil with no regrets had come of age,
And according to all sources – he’d secured a plot of ground,
So all the cracks had gathered for the day.
All the tried and noted siblings from the stations near and far
Had mustered at the homestead overnight,
For the children love abiding where the birthday parties are,
And the main course beckons all with its delights.

There was Clarrie boy who made us smile with his relaxing banter,
And the old Pam with her hair and white as snow;
But few could match intensity with Lank’s amazing wit –-
He could talk ‘til hoarse leaving others in the know.
And Westley of the Overflow came down to lend a hand,
No better poet ever held such sway;
Young Natalie could hold her ground, though she was soft and tender,
She learned to talk while tied to cars with chains.

And one was there, with Santa hair on a small and weedy beast,
He was something like a Granddad in disguise,
He liked his Indian curry -- three serves on jasmine rice at least –-
And such as are by connoisseurs’ still prized.
He was hard and tough and cheery – just the sort that won’t say die --
There was courage in his quick but patient tread;
And he bore the badge of gameness in his bright and twinkly eye,
And a proud and lofty snore while on his bed.

But Granddad had a problem, they called it flatulence,
It resounded to the thunder of his tread.
And it seemed to wake the echoes, and they fiercely answered back
From cliffs and crags that beetled overhead.
And upward, ever upward, the crescendo made it’s way,
Where Grandma and her family reside;
And the old man muttered fiercely, "Peace be still for just a day,
No man can hold such wind and smell inside."

And down by French’s Forest, where the local bridges raise
Their torn and rugged battlements on high,
Where the air is clear as crystal, and the white stars fairly blaze
At midnight in the cold and frosty sky,
And where around the Overflow the reedbeds sweep and sway
To the breezes, and the rolling plains are wide,
The Man with Windy Liver is a household word to-day,
And his children tell his story with such pride.

Remote Blogging

It seems that it is possible to add to my Blog site via e-mail.  I thought I should give it a quick test before going 'Live' with it.

Google Reader & RSS -- Wow!

Yesterday I just discovered the Google Reader and RSS feeds.

I signed up to a couple and thought to myself -- 'this is pretty good'! It has inspired me to have a crack at this blog thing again.

It's a bit sad that I haven't posted anything since October 2007!!!

Happy 40th Birthday Scott

Some Recollections

• Uncle Scott playing with children, especially ‘terror tip’.
• Our children all remember Scott jumping out at the end of a hedge maze in country Victoria. The kids all lived on the edge of terror and excitement all at the same time.
• Your snoring… what else can I say!
• Bethany remembers us arriving for a haircut, to find Uncle Scott with a yellow bucket on his head. In a flourish he removed the bucket to expose a bald scalp saying: “This is what Auntie Kate’s doing today”.
• So many DartLea camping adventures. We often think of them when we are on other holidays, but not in their company.
• Camping gadgets – especially his hot plate.
• 4WD gadgets – air compressor, tyre repair kit, sat phone.
• Scott’s questionable sense of direction. Famous Victorian High Country detour – no doubt the new GPS will leave him without excuse!

Some Birthday Quotations

Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional.
~Chili Davis

Youth is a wonderful thing. What a crime to waste it on children.
~George Bernard Shaw

Middle age is when your age starts to show around your middle.
~Bob Hope

You're not 40, you're eighteen with 22 years experience.
~Author Unknown

A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman's birthday but never remembers her age.
~Robert Frost

Wisdom doesn't necessarily come with age. Sometimes age just shows up all by itself.
~Tom Wilson

Inside every older person is a younger person wondering what happened.
~Jennifer Yane

Scott’s Character or perhaps “What is Scott Full Of”

Full of an almost childlike enthusiasm – sometimes I feel like the straight man in a comedy duo. I always seem to take everything so seriously. Scott is good for me, he makes me laugh. Sometimes at him, more often than not at myself!

• Enthusiasm (ἐνθουσιασμός) root - en-theos = in God. An enthusiast is a person inspired by God. The word was invented by early Christians to describe the overwhelming joy that followed the gift of Salvation.
• His enthusiasm is expressed in so many ways; gadgets, camping, 4WDing, organising events, red wine etc. But perhaps most profoundly in worship!

Full of faith and the joy of walking with God. Those of you who know Scott well, are fully aware of this. He is wholehearted about his love and devotion to God. Sometimes so much so, that he is completely at a loss for words.

Full of love for Katrina and his boys.

• Scott & Katrina sometimes say that they think they married too young – personally I think this is complete rubbish!!! When two people love each other as much as they so obviously do, why wouldn’t they want to spend as much time together as possible? We’ve been privileged to see the odd dummy spit; but when you camp and travel with another family for over three weeks, they are a bit hard to avoid! But we’ve also seen the looks of absolute love and adoration they give each other when they don’t even know that other people are watching.
• Scott takes delight in the company of his sons. He loves watching their soccer games, and celebrates all their achievements. He is committed to their long term maturity and growth; he doesn’t shy away from the tougher aspects of his role as a dad.

Full of wisdom. Scott has been a part of pretty much all of the most important decisions in my life over the past couple of decades. I deeply value his counsel and encouragement.

Full of generosity. He is very good at concealing this, but I know many here would have experienced the generosity of this man. Whether through the loan of a car, a bed and a room to sleep in, or cash when you have hit hard times. I have many memories of Scott dropping money into a busker’s hat, or a Salvo’s donation box. Not to mention giving to fundraising events or church offerings. It seems to flow so naturally.

• Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. (2 Corinthians 9:7)

Full of genuine warmth and love for others. This is why both Scott & Katrina are so good at hospitality. The recent renovation to their home is as much about us as it is about them!

• Romans 12:13 simply says: “Practice hospitality”
• It has been said that "When you entertain, you bring honour and glory to yourself. Showing hospitality brings honour and glory to God."

Scott and Katrina, your lives have each brought honour and glory to God. We are so privileged to count you as dear friends.

May you enjoy the next 40 years as much as we have enjoyed spending the last 40 with you.